scrapxs4 update catch up

March 12, 2009 by Shamrocker

 Well I am sorry I have been slow on posting . I have posted in some of the forums but just normal chatter stuff.  So here goes the catch you all up stuff.

  OK ..... drum roll...   Everything is going along smooth I suppose. counseling about 2 -3 times aweek. Support group meetings for myself and Jim. Homeschool is back in our daily routine thankfully. Now that we are not running to court almost every other day. Though we are still going a lot. But I only have one more date set on the first to finish it all up. Which will be  a load off. Support is going well He is paying what the court ordered him to and then some as me and the kids are getting no support or assistance from any other source so Jim is supporting us alone. He is still very supporrting the homeschooling and trying to work through what we have been through over the past 3 years. The docs and counselors are pleased with the prgress and very supportive.  I have been able to let go of some household chores and have him take them over to lighten my load when h comes over. He is handling certain bills and having them auto drafted out of his account.  A lot of progress is being made I think. The kids are talking and feeling better. Bri's meds have been reduced and she is doing a lot better. Way less tantrums. She of course still has the 9 going on 17 mouth occassionally which erks me. lol

 The lst 2 weeks the kids have been sick with tummy bugs and then Ev got a ear infection ontop of that. Poor baby. Then Mon we had really bad fires here and they were talking about evacuating . They did evacuate about 2 dozen homes but they were the super high dollor homes at the end of my street on the actual street where the fire was. It never jumped the rd. So we were fine. It burnt 75 acres. All wooded so no homes were lost . All due to a discarded cigarette butt. They are reporting.

 As far as myself I have been so ashamed and embarressed that my family has had to deal with all of this. To be honest. But I have come to realize that everyone has drama and mine is not as bad as some.  Some people also make some choices to bring the drama and then some into their lives over and over. I am trying to take my drama deal with it and change what ever I need to to make sure it is gone for good and the good of my kids and myself and Jim. SO I have decided not be ashamed anymore. Just deal with it. lol Progresss! After all it is not like my family has been sitting around drinking and just loosing it up. We have been going to doc and banging on doors for the past 3 years and just not getting any of the propper help till the last 5 months. Sadly.

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