You start dating this guy. It is so much fun to be with him. He makes you laugh and everything just works perfect. Some little fights happen, as we all have them. But you do not pay attention to the motives of these fights. Well, he´s a bit jealous, what´s the big deal?
So you get married. In less than a year you get married to this guy and your home is your kingdom. It makes you feel great to get home from work. It is so cosy.
Watching TV the other day I saw a program about "Surrendered Housewives" and the book L.Doyle had written. I was amazed to hear she has so many followers, she gives seminars and has sold I don´t know how many books. I also know this is no new news. It was a shocking experience to hear this (old) news. That is definitively not the life I would freely and willingly choose for myself.