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DH refuses to see doc for infertility

February 26, 2010 by cautiousoptimism

My gyns told me they could find nothing wrong with me and said that before they do other invasive tests that my husband needed to be checked out. I told him and he denied any thing being wrong with him and that the problem was with me.

DH finally comes to America!

February 24, 2010 by cautiousoptimism

Long story short, 3 years into our marriage, he finally gets a visa to come to America. Still TTC.

lizards

February 16, 2010 by cautiousoptimism

So? Was I running away from dh or the new atmosphere? I didn't know at that point Maybe a little bit of both. Soooo, I go back. He's at another location.. one thats more like what Im used to. Sitting toilets..or should I say squating toilets as opposed to an open field was a step towards modernity. I was happy, but not with the lizards crawling on the walls. Ugh!!!

Why do I call myself "cautiousoptimism"?

February 11, 2010 by cautiousoptimism

I was 19 yo when I got married to my dh in a foreign country_ It was an arranged marriage. That was 13 years ago! Still married, but many obstacles along the way. I will begin with my struggle TTC. Even though I was starting my second year of college with a major in science-I wanted to be a doctor-I didn't consider contraception and nobody told me about it either. I decided to "go with the flow". Luckily, I didn't get pregnant. Due to visa complications, my husband and I were separated geographically, after a month into our marriage.

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